Always new beginnings

Some days it can feel that my life has slowed way down since I became a mama. I expected it of course, and yet it’s a whole different thing to experience it. This week we are attempting potty training for the first time, which means we’re out and about even less than usual, enjoying simple…

Why I think you should bake with your Toddler (and how to start)

Some of my earliest memories are of baking. I can remember standing at our kitchen counter, weighing flour and whisking eggs and learning how to use the hand held mixer. My mum taught me how to make cheese scones and coffee cake and “hag and mag” (our family version of tiffin). All my memories of…

You didn’t fail at Birth

(You can read Part I and Part II of Oskar’s birth story here…)   I want to tell you something really important. I want to tell you that you don’t need to feel any shame over your births. You don’t need to feel guilty. You don’t need to be embarrassed. It is a heavy burden to…

Oskar’s Birth Story (part II) – a redemption story

(Read part I here first) There is laundry currently drying where I gave birth to my son. I chose to have a home birth this time. When I suggested it at my booking in appointment, the midwife almost jumped up with excitement (they are trying to increase the number of home births in the country…

Oskar’s Birth Story (part I) – on befriending my fear

There is laundry currently drying on the spot where I gave birth to my son. We inflated the birth pool around my due date, even though it took up about a third of our living room, just to be ready. It loomed large those next eight days while we waited for him to make an…