on getting older

It’s my birthday today. And with this one, I definitely can no longer claim to be in my mid-twenties, it’s definitely late-twenties, and inching daily towards the big three oh that everyone anticipates so much. And I’m not dreading it. Today looks like it will be quite a normal day. We got home late last…

brave is daring to speak

Our working week finishes early this week, as tomorrow we make the long drive to Denmark for the Easter holiday. We’ll be in Copenhagen over the weekend catching up with lots of friends (one couple whose baby is due this weekend!) and then onto Bornholm on Monday evening to spend the rest of Holy Week…

when vulnerability looks like courage

There’s a video that I’ve watched three or four times now because what the woman says in it rings so true it’s like a thousand bells start clanging in my head when she starts to speak, saying take notice. You’ve maybe already watched it because this Ted talk on vulnerability by Brene Brown has been…

when being brave is scary

This conversation happened last night, as I was standing in the kitchen, stirring the vegetables in the hot frying pan and leaning my forehead against the too-low extractor fan. Rasmus sat on the other side of the counter, on one of our red bar stools, a Leffe in one hand. We do this, in the…

why I can be brave

I have a guest post up at She Loves today. I have enjoyed hanging around this community of intelligent, inspiring, faith-filled women since I discovered them a few months ago. And now I am thrilled (and hugely nervous) to have written my own first post for them. It was easier for me to be brave…

The Wisdom of Silence

I’ve been noticing a bad habit of mine recently. I wonder if it’s one any of you share? My bad habit is that I tend to talk too much. Yes, I’m a chatty person but that’s not exactly what I’m thinking of. Have you ever been in one of those group situations where you suddenly…